Take a break...it will do you a whole lotta good.

[MikeMotorbike]

Take a break from romance for a while. We tend to put too much stress on ourselves to perform. During this pandemic, my wife was injured and laid up for several months. Out of commission...the store was closed! It was the longest time we had ever not had sex. The first month was the toughest, however, as the months went on, it started to get much easier to go without. Then many months passed and it started getting scary. What if I can't do it any more? No one is talking about it and it's not happening...

I can tell you it's like riding a bike, once you jump on, it all comes back to you. After 5 month's the romance was starting to make a comeback and I realized, it was ok to take a break. It was like a new romance was blooming and it was exciting...

[ZenHunter]

I hear ya brother, probably a good idea for all of us to take a break once in a while. It sounds like a good plan!

[Jaime]

On 10/27/2020 at 6:26 AM, MikeMotorbike said:

Take a break from romance for a while. We tend to put too much stress on ourselves to perform. During this pandemic, my wife was injured and laid up for several months. Out of commission...the store was closed! It was the longest time we had ever not had sex. The first month was the toughest, however, as the months went on, it started to get much easier to go without. Then many months passed and it started getting scary. What if I can't do it any more? No one is talking about it and it's not happening...

I can tell you it's like riding a bike, once you jump on, it all comes back to you. After 5 month's the romance was starting to make a comeback and I realized, it was ok to take a break. It was like a new romance was blooming and it was exciting...

So true! Romance will come in waves and I think that's bound to always happen. And it's OK! Forcing it or planning for sex can be okay, but I think we can all agree spontaneity and passion is more ideal.